Imagine you are just hanging out with your friends and you see a drop dead gorgeous woman, that makes your heart skip a beat and your stomach ach. You start to imagine what her ass looks like under that dress. Suddenly, everything you wanted to say to her seems to suck out of you brain and you went completely blanked. Before you even have a chance to make your move, she disappears and never to be seen again.
If you are nodding your head in agreement and re-living the frustration, don't worry you are not alone. After all, most of us are just not taught how to talk to beautiful women when we were growing up. But, the good news is, it doesn't always have to be this way. Learning to talk to women and sparking attraction is a learnable skill like any other.
So today, I will be talking about three ways to talk to women and spark attraction.
1. Opposite attract. Just like magnets, when you put opposite side together they attract but, when you put the same sides they repel. So you have to demonstrate more of your masculine energy side to her. Girls are attracted to a more masculine confident guys the same way you are attracted to soft feminine women. So when you are talking to her or doing anything else don't hide that your masculine part of you. You can be soft at times but, your masculinity is what should be dominant.
2. Self Amusement. Yes self Amusement is exactly what it seems, using the interaction or conversation to amuse yourself instead of her. This is were most guys screw up, because they will they have to impress the girl and please her. But no no no don't do that. Am not saying you should not do things to please a woman but, you have to understand your mindset as an attractive confident man. When you say things you think is funny and makes you laugh she will find them funny too. In this way you won't be in your head analysing but, you will be grounded and you won't run out of things to say to keep the interaction going. There was a time I went out with my friends and one of them cracked a penis joke we were all laughing but, the girl he came with stand up and leave but, we didn't care we were not trying to please her. She turned back saw our reaction that we didn't care about her leaving she came right back sat down and said; yea i think that was funny. 😅
3. Qualification. This is testing to see if she fits certain qualities, you find in a woman. That shows her that you won't just date her for her looks and that still shows her you are a man with standards. For example, if you won't a girl who can cook, you say. So tell me, can you cook? If she says no then you say. Well then, I don't think this can work out, but it was fun have an awesome day. Listen I have lots of experience and what I teach is based on science and psychology. Am stopping here for today but, if you want more interesting tips on how to start a conversation with a girl and escalate all the way to the bedroom click on my link below register and I will see you in my next article.
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