I Am Confused! Between Someone I Love And Someone Who Loves Me, Who Should I Go For?

Now this is the problem.

I love this lady so much but it really doesn’t seem like she loves me the way I do her despite the fact that we have been together for almost a year and half now, she is nice, respectful, and very lovely to be with though frequently complains about very little stuffs I do or fail to do

Now there is this other lady who we ve been together for like 2 years now, very caring, calm and reserved and I can say to an extent that she truly cares about me but deep down in me I honestly do not have this kinda strong romantic feelings for her though I like her very much.

Both ladies are perfectly my kind of women in terms of looks and character.

I intend to settle down and possibly get married this year and these`are the only 2 ladies in my life presently.

Am in my early 30s.

Which is better to focus on, the one who loves me more or the one I love more.

Please I Need Advise.